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What makes us happy? In a study titled, Personality, Culture and Subjective Well-Being: Emotional and Cognitive Evaluation of Life the researchers looked at how various cultures viewed happiness as well as how individual personality types affect happiness. They concluded, "Do people want to be happy, or do they want other valued goals more than happiness? Do they want those other goals because they will make them happy? We suggest that people all over the world most want to be happy by achieving the things they value.”
While this is insightful and helpful it fails to address an important internal dynamic of what to do when one part of you values one thing but another part values something different.
Once you understand that a healthy mind is designed to have multiple personalities so much begins to make sense. You recognize how everything you do is an attempt to make a part of you happy. But making one part happy inevitably angers other parts. One path to authentic happiness is to acknowledge and unify the many parts of your personality when what they want conflicts with each other.
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