WHAT IS SEXIER THAN A MAN WITH INTEGRITY?
SSSSSHHH! Women don't tell men but you're not the problem!
Most men have the emotional maturity of a 16 year old boy. Why? Because society doesn't require men to be more mature to be professionally successful and find a partner.
Most men are never taught by their fathers and other men how to love well, tell the truth and act with integrity so they are left to figure it out on their own which often takes a very long time if it ever happens.
It is tragic what many women endure for years from their emotionally immature partners losing so much time while hoping things will get better.
This wishful thinking results in years of wasted time and unnecessary suffering. The answer is for men is for them to do their work. The answer for women is for them to take back their power.
Women, don't give up hope. There is a path forward for you and your relationship. It, too, centers around the virtues of love, wisdom and integrity.