Where Good Guys Become Great Men


There are three types of men. There’s the Bad Guy, the Good Guy, and the Great Man. The Bad Guy makes bad choices. He creates unnecessary chaos, conflict with friends and family, and problems for himself and others everywhere he goes. His actions are often irrational and unpredictable. The Good Guy becomes a good guy simply by not being a Bad Guy. But to be Great Man requires intentional, focused effort. If you want to be a Great Man, you are going to need a plan.

A Great Man knows what he will do whether he gets the promotion or is laid off. He knows how he will treat women who are not his wife. He knows because he thoughtfully planned how he will respond before encountering each situation. Great Men are not born, they are made by preparing in advance for life’s many challenges. When they are tested, they are prepared.

The Sacred Life is committed to helping Good Guys become Great Men. The only requirement to join The Sacred Life community is to make the following commitment to yourself:

I commit to keep doing the work because the work never ends. The work is to grow in love, wisdom, and integrity and to help others grow in love, wisdom, and integrity. 

The Sacred Life teaches men how to listen to themselves and love themselves through a daily practice called Sacred Space.

The Sacred Life also teaches The Transformational Experience, a guide for finding solutions to any life problem. To find out more, buy the book LISTEN or schedule a one-on-one session.

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Men By The Numbers

(WARNING: It isn’t pretty)

  • In the United States, white males accounted for almost 70% of deaths by suicide in 2019

  • Globally 75 % of deaths by suicide are men

  • American Survey Center found that men who have six or more close friends dropped from 55% in 1990 to 27% in 2021

  • Men with zero close friends grew from 3% in 1990 to 15% in 2021

  • Only about 36% of males with a mental illness in the US actually receive treatment

  • The Hill reports, “men in their 20’s are more likely than women in their 20’s to be romantically uninvolved, sexually dormant, friendless and lonely”

  • “In the worst case scenario, the young American man’s social disconnect can have tragic consequences. Young men commit suicide at four times the rate of young women. Younger men are largely responsible for rising rates of mass shootings, a trend some researchers link to their growing isolation.” - The Hill

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